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Domestic violence against men - the uncomfortablefact.

Domestic violence against men is not ever always easy to recognize, but it can be a truly serious hazard to the abused person. How do you know if either you or someone you know is being mistreated in such as way as to be considered a victim of "domestic violence?" And where can you or they go to get help confidentially?

Beleive it or not, the fact is that women are not the only victims of domestic violence.

What are the signs of [http://www.domesticviolenceagainstmen.net domestic violence against men]?

Domestic violence is also widely known as domestic abuse, hitting or other spouse or partner violence. It happens most often between people in a intimate relationship. Domestic violence against men may take many various forms, such as mental, emotional, physical, sexual abuse and almost always the threats of abuse. Domestic violence occurs without respect to sexual orientation. In fact, it happens in both in heterosexual and same-sex relationships.

Domestic violence against men is often troublesome to detect. But all too often here is what happens: soon in the new and usually intimate relationship, one person seems very attentive, remarkably generous and quite exceedingly protective. in time and in hindsight s/he turns out to be terribly inhibiting and quite often terrifying. In the beginning with that person, the abuse seems as isolated occurrences. And that's when the pattern of i'm sorry and promises to not to do that abusive thing to you ever again.

In some domestic relationships, domestic violence against males might include both persons or partners play-slapping and/or shoving each other around when one or the other gets angry. Typically neither person sees himself or herself as being abused or manipulated. Regardless, the adverse affects of those types of disguised violence, however, it will devastate a marriage and leaving both persons with deep, long-lasting emotional scars and physical injury.

Domestic [http://www.domesticviolenceagainstmen.net violence against men] happens both in private and even in public. Here are 17+ warning signs that you may well be the victim of abuse:

1. Constant, belittling name calling
2. Repeatedly saying hurtful insults or personal put downs
3. Physically forbids you from going out to work or school
4. Slowly and eventually stops or cuts you off from seeing and communicating to loved ones, good friends, neighbors and especially strangers
5. Tries to control how you spend your money
6. Tries to keep control of where you go and even what clothing you wear
7. Is or acts jealous and angrily so
8. Is overly possessive
9. Frequently accuses you of cheating
10. Becomes an angry, beligerent drunk or gets crazy when high on drugs
11. Has a handgun or other dangerous items and uses them to threaten you with violence
12. Has a history of and may still abuse pets or small animals
13. Has hurt you and/or your children or elderly parent(s)
14. Has hit, punched, kicked, choked or otherwise assaulted you while you were sleeping, intoxicated or unable to defend yourself
15. Has raped or forced you to have sex or engage in sex acts against your will (Never takes NO as a NO.)
16. Argues that you are the cause for his or her violent actions or tells you that you therefore deserved the abuse
17. Outwardly to you and especially to other people portrays the bumps as a joke or just consensual rough sex that it all is no big deal.

To sum up, if either you or someone you know has experienced any of the above signs of domestic abuse, or been the victim of domestic violence, then please stop right now and call your local police department and report them. There are laws prohibiting physical voilence and state and local resources to help and protect male and female victims of domestic violence.

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